Maria in NYC Music Project – Day 13

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Whoo I just spent the entire afternoon/evening pre-recording songs for Maria! It’s because privacy is still difficult to come by, especially now that my father is also back in town so I won’t have use of his place either, and I will be out of town in Hong Kong from the 13th to the 17th. I know it seems long but trust me, it isn’t. I get on a train on the afternoon of the 13th because trains going south currently travel only on odd numbered days, I get in to Hong Kong on the afternoon of the 14th, and it’s too late to catch the even numbered north bound train for that day so I have to wait until the 16th. Have I written all this before? I get the sneaky suspicion that I have…maybe it’s just blogging deja vu. And did I blog about that also? I’m getting deja vu about my deja vu…hmmmmm…

Either way so I recorded 8 songs for Maria, and wow are these songs from different genres. I’m starting to re-realize all the songs I like, and all the different types of songs that I like, and in general having lots of fun singing and playing and recording them. It’s one of few things that I do right now that I’d like to classify under the heading of “purely for fun.” Too many other things I do have some purpose in one way or another; it’s good to be able to almost relax with something that’s just for fun.

Incidentally, I think I mentioned that I had broken my high E string for the last batch of songs. Well, I bought a new set of strings for this set of songs so while the previous had a lack in treble, for those who can discern this new batch will have a distinct “brightness” to it that’s due to the new brass strings; they’re lots of fun, though they’re not yet holding their tuning real well either so, well, bear with; as I said, for fun right? ;)

I also wonder if I should put these in some better order; at the moment, they’re pseudo alphabetical by batch, while the first bunch were just the ones that I did that day. The pseudo part is due to I number them after I record them…or after I record them all I’m not consistent about that…but it means that uh, they’re order is just all over the place, so I wonder, but don’t wonder too hard really.

This is almost literally all I did today, seeing as how I was exhausted yesterday, I managed to sleep until like 8:30 this morning, did a few things, then promptly fell back to sleep at like 10am until 1pm, at which time I got ready to come here and record. I don’t plan to do anything else today either. Tomorrow, I’m jammed packed full with freelance web work for my father and Cary; I wonder when and if I’ll ever get paid…

So today is Nirvana – Jesus Don’t Want Me for a Sunbeam :) This is also one of the first songs I learned to sing and play on the guitar way the way back when…

2 Responses to "Maria in NYC Music Project – Day 13"


maria j. g. | July 12th, 2010 |

I also recently experienced deja vu deja vu! (It’s a glitch in the Matrix, you know.)

I realize you’re responding to my question about whether you felt your song quality was improving with the practice. Fun and progress are not mutually exclusive (discuss). As you’re aware, I often find my enjoyment of a leisure activity enhanced by the feeling that I’m building something, even something as flimsy as my Garmin running-route records. This helps structure my life, or at least helps conceal my true character as an aimless wanderer.

Yet you, at least at first, roundly rejected my suggestion that you might improve by this practice. I inferred that improvement obtained by this activity would actually be negative for you. Are we so different, you and I? ;)

[Exercise 1. How do you know when you're having fun? Is there an indicator light? Can you measure relative quantity/quality? Please create a formatted spreadsheet.]


sean x. l. | July 22nd, 2010 |

It’s not that I don’t think I’ll improve, as far as get used to playing and singing with the guitar again goes, through this project, it’s more that that’s not the goal per se. I mostly like the positive reaction I get from you when I send you these. That’s what I’m looking for, acknowledgment that you appreciate something that I am doing for you, and it makes me happy, makes me happy thinking about it even, which is why I record the songs in the first place. And it’s also a sort of trip down memory lane of sorts for me and my history with singing with the guitar; I’m re-visiting many old songs and old memories associated with them and though it’s kind of like wallowing, I enjoy the nostalgia. A bunch of these songs I even think about you now when I’m playing them!

As far as happiness indicators of the Sean, I’m not sure there are any; I’d like to think he’d have a kind of serene aura about him when he is happy; that’s kind of how he feels when he is, more serene than anything, in a peaceful kind of simple way.

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  • Milestones

    • August 25, 2010 - M. registers with Tsinghua IMBA
    • August 22, 2010 - M. returns to China from NYC Summer Internship 2010
    • August 21, 2010 - M.'s last day in NYC for Summer Internship 2010
    • August 20, 2010 - S. loses contract job with ISB due to visa woes
    • August 20, 2010 - S. gets contract job with ISB doing Help Desk work
    • August 19, 2010 - S. gets 3 month "visiting relatives" extension on his visa
    • August 11, 2010 - Happy 1 Year Anniversary Blog!
    • August 11, 2010 - M. gets her China Student Visa!
    • July 21, 2010 - S. officially begins doing web work for the IFC
    • July 13, 2010 to July 17, 2010 - S. takes train down to HK to get on his last visa entry
    • July 12, 2010 - M. gets all trained up for her internship
    • June 28, 2010 - S. starts M. in NYC Music Project
    • June 27, 2010 - M. flies to NYC for finance internship
    • May 30, 2010 - S. sings with the IFCC at WAB
    • May 23, 2010 - S. starts doing freelance work for Cary
    • May 16, 2010 - M. and S. manage to drive through "Bay to Breakers" and catch their SFO flights back to China
    • May 15, 2010 - M. and S. attend Miguel's wedding; S. is groomsman
    • May 14, 2010 - M. and S. meet in LA and drive up to SF for Miguel's wedding
    • May 10, 2010 - S. leaves for the States for the first time since coming to China
    • May 4, 2010 - M. signs partnership agreement
    • May 2, 2010 - M. runs her first full marathon: the Cincinnati "Flying Pig"
    • April 30, 2010 - S. buys 200RMB bike in China
    • April 27, 2010 - M. leaves for the States for the first time since coming to China
    • April 26, 2010 - M. accepts Tsinghua IMBA admissions offer
    • April 25, 2010 - S. sings "African Sanctus" with IFC
    • April 8, 2010 - Maria gets "acceptance email" from Tsinghua
    • April 8, 2010 - Happy Birthday M.!
    • April 2, 2010 - M. gets "acceptance email" from BiMBA
    • April 2, 2010 - M. interviews with Tsinghua IMBA
    • March 27, 2010 - S. and M. eat SUSHI for the first time in Beijing; it's been over 6 MONTHS!
    • March 27, 2010 - S. and M. celebrate much belated 2 year anniversary
    • March 25, 2010 - S. and M. celebrate 6 months in China
    • March 24, 2010 - S. and M. buy seeds!
    • March 23, 2010 - M. interviews with BiMBA
    • March 19, 2010 - S. and M.'s work visa applications get submitted. Wish us luck!
    • March 19, 2010 - S. finally gets all his work visa materials together
    • March 14, 2010 - S. and M. go to Hong Kong to get on their third entry into China
    • March 4, 2010 - S. files 2009 US State and Federal tax returns from China
    • March 3, 2010 - M. turns in MBA application for BiMBA
    • March 2, 2010 - M. takes GMAT in Beijing
    • February 21, 2010 - Lantern Festival in China, fireworks FINALLY end
    • February 15, 2010 - S. and M.'s 2 year anniversary, celebration postponed for a month
    • February 14, 2010 - Happy Year of the Tiger!
    • February 14, 2010 - S. and M. celebrate first Valentine's Day in China together
    • February 14, 2010 - S. and M. celebrate first Chinese New Year in China together
    • February 1, 2010 - M. turns in MBA application for Tsinghua
    • January 14, 2010 - S. and M. go to Seoul, Korea again to get on their next visa entry
    • January 1, 2010 - Happy New Year in China!
    • December 25, 2009 - S. and M.'s first Christmas in China; successful Christmas buffet at Connections Bar and Grill
    • December 19, 2009 - S. performs Handel's Messiah with the IFC in China!
    • December 16, 2009 - S. performs at the British Embassy with the IFC
    • December 15, 2009 - S. and M. open Chinese bank account
    • December 14, 2009 - M. starts taking Chinese classes
    • December 10, 2009 - S. is really managing Connections Bar and Grill; huh?
    • December 1, 2009 - Renovations FINALLY finish at S. and M.'s Beijing apartment.
    • December 1, 2009 - Renovations finish at Connections
    • November 26, 2009 - S. and M's first Thanksgiving in China
    • November 22, 2009 - S.'s first concert performance in China with the IFC Children's Chorus
    • November 18, 2009 - S. and M.'s China visa expires for the first time
    • November 16 to 18, 2009 - S. and M. go to Seoul, Korea for visa purposes
    • November 15, 2009 - S. celebrates his 26th birthday in China
    • November 13, 2009 - S. joins the International Festival Chorus in Beijing
    • October 31, 2009 - Renovations begin at Connections Bar and Grill
    • October 30, 2009 - M. gives talk at China University of Political Science and Law
    • October 24, 2009 - M. runs first race in Beijing, the 3rd Annual Pride in Beijing "10K"
    • October 23, 2009 - M. has first "non-S. et. al." business lunch
    • October 22, 2009 - M. sits in on iMBA class at BiMBA, BeiDa
    • October 20, 2009 - M. sits in on iMBA class at Tsinghua University
    • October 13, 2009 - S. and M.'s apartment gets internet
    • October 11, 2009 - S. and M. move in together
    • October 11, 2009 - S. and M. move into their own apartment in Beijing
    • September 25, 2009 - M. takes first run in Beijing
    • September 22, 2009 - S. and M. move to China
    • September 19, 2009 - S. and M. christen "Bob"
    • September 14, 2009 - S. and M. take last vacation in States to Carmel, CA
    • September 12, 2009 - S. and M. attend their going away party at Craig and Becky's
    • September 12, 2009 - M. sells her car
    • September 11, 2009 - S.'s last day at VS Media
    • September 7, 2009 - S. and M. get one way tickets to China
    • September 5, 2009 - M. gets added to S.'s checking account, making it "their" checking account
    • September 4, 2009 - M. finishes her MCLE
    • September 3, 2009 - S. and M. approved for visas to China.
    • August 31, 2009 - M. applies for visas for S. and M.
    • August 30, 2009 - S. gets new glasses after nearly five years
    • August 30, 2009 - S. and M. book last vacation in US to Carmel by the Sea
    • August 29, 2009 - M. transitions to T-Mobile pay-as-you-go cell phone, saying goodbye to Verizon
    • August 29, 2009 - M. submits paperwork to roll over SMRH 401k to IRA
    • August 15, 2009 - S. visits OH and meets M.'s immediate family for first time
    • August 10, 2009 - S. gives notice to VS Media, last day September 11, 2009
    • August 9, 2009 - M. visits RI/OH, meets twin nephews for first time
    • August 8, 2009 - M. purchases gap insurance
    • August 7, 2009 - M.'s last day at SMRH; thanks for the memories
    • July 31, 2009 - S. and M. move to his father's home
    • July 24, 2009 - S. moves collective furniture to his mother's home, moves into M's apt.
    • July 24, 2009 - M. 1st chair at trial, fails at submitting the stipulation, but inadvertently gets the case dismissed
    • July 23, 2009 - Everything OK with M.'s oral surgery
    • July 23, 2009 - S. sells his car
    • July 22, 2009 - M. sells her couch
    • July 21, 2009 - M. gives notice to SMRH, last day August 7, 2009
    • July 16, 2009 - M. gets oral surgery to remove wisdom teeth/cyst
  • To Do

    • S. and M. - Determine what to do with our lives...
    • M. - Editing work
    • S. and M. - Find new apartment
    • S. - Epiphany website
    • S. - West Campus website
    • S. - IFC website
    • S. - Connections website
    • S. - Get a job